In previous articles I reviewed
both positive and negative ways to deal with “Difficult Students” who
constantly misbehave at school. Dealing with Difficult Students Effective Ways to Deal with Difficult Students Dealing with Loud and Playful Difficult Students I encouraged teachers to have unbending and effective classroom
management, and I suggested positive ways for them to deal with repeated and distractive behavior of students.
However, several parents recently contacted me to complain about several
difficult students whose constant power struggles with teachers at a high
school in Belize City hamper the learning process of other students.
While re-reading my previously
published articles, I noticed a reader’s comment to suggest that today’s
difficult students need “a good paddling” as they used to get in the past. Once more, I remind readers that we cannot
live in the past! This is 2013 and we
need to adapt classroom management methods that are in line with 21st
Century ways of living and learning.
Previous civilizations constructed huge temples and pyramids (Maya ruins
in Belize) by using slave labor forced out of thousands of its citizens;
however, no matter how magnificent those temples and pyramids turned out, we do
not build monuments that way today.
Likewise, many teachers used the paddle regularly 50 years ago to
“straighten out students”; but teachers do not use paddles today for many
reasons. Many research studies,
conducted by well-respected professionals and many books that followed, show
long-term negative effects of corporal punishment.
According to current law,
corporal punishment is not allowed in schools in Belize. In other words, even if paddling was used (or
worked) in the past, it is not a viable solution today to stop unwanted student
misbehavior. So, do we simply throw up
our hands and let misbehaving students do as they wish at school? The answer is a loud and resounding NO. Loud, distracting, and unwanted student
behavior at any school is as totally unacceptable today as it was in the
past. It impacts others negatively, and
it totally disrupts the learning process of the entire class, including the
perpetrator(s). Not only does it show
total disregard and disrespect for teachers and for the other students, but it
goes against school rules and regulations.
Rules and regulations, after all, help to keep us civilized as opposed
to barbarian!
We educators know that managing
student behavior is a complex task, one not as simple as “follow steps 1, 2,
3”. Actually, the lack of simple
formulas for enforcing effective classroom management explains why many
difficult students often surface (even thrive) in schools. Some educators today ignore the misbehavior
of difficult students because they don’t know an easy way to end it. Demerits, detentions, and suspensions are
temporary interventions to temporarily slow or halt misbehavior; however, they
don’t address the root causes of why students break rules, or chronically and
aggressively misbehave. Other than
ultimate expulsion, there is no guaranteed solution to permanently end student
misbehavior. Nonetheless, we should
always make every effort to halt student misbehavior at school as soon as it
starts. Immediate and/or temporary
interventions work for a while, but they are not enough. As educators, parents, and as a community we
also need to address “head on” the actual roots that create difficult
students. After all, no one is born a
difficult student, but rather is created out of, shaped by, and continuously
nurtured by his/her home and surrounding environment.
Many schools claim to have
outright “Zero Tolerance” for any type of misbehavior from a student. However, life is not black and white. For this very reason, teachers and
administrators (who are the ones who usually know students best) should be
allowed flexibility to deal with difficult students. Who better to work effectively with
them? Many graduates (and their parents)
of the last school where I worked have high praise for their former principal. He was quite creative in doling out
punishments for difficult students; however, his hands were not tied as to how
he could deal with them. His many forms of creative discipline “worked” because
he was free to discipline students in many ways, and still be able to respect
their dignity.
So, yes, let us immediately
address any unwanted behavior in students, and nip it in the bud; but let’s not
stop there! By looking deeper we’ll
realize that loud and misbehaving students are screaming out for attention, and from a total lack of dignity – they have none or have never been shown
any. These are students who, deep
inside, believe themselves to be inferior, inadequate, and unworthy. They’ll
hide and mask these confusing and unhealthy feelings from themselves by trying to
always “be in control” -- hence their constant, loud and destructive behavior
at school. (Are there any difficult
students who are high achievers?)
I suggest that we firmly
discipline difficult students by enforcing strategic and effective
interventions, not packaged methods, to show them that each action, good or
bad, bears a consequence. Let’s show
them how to rise above their negative behavior at school by acknowledging, not
condoning, their individual needs and out-of-school triggers of constant
misbehavior. Yes, firmly discipline
them; but also model for them how to deal with conflict -- they don’t know
how. Modeling, however, will not be
successful if it’s full of implied threats, is militaristic or mindlessly
robotic. Chronically misbehaving
students usually live fully rooted in confusion and want to know that someone
cares about them in life. (More intense
or aggressive behavior may indicate a desperate need to know!) We show care by teaching them how to develop
responsibility, i.e. for actions and consequences. (Does paddling do that?)
“In School Suspension” provides
several forms of effective and much-needed discipline for difficult students;
it also affords the dignity that these students crave and desperately
need. San Pedro High Introduces New Suspension Program In Belize,
rehabilitative discipline is widely misunderstood. Most administrators, teachers, parents and
students protest that not enough punishment is involved. So, by not intervening and helping difficult
students while we can, do we “cut off our nose to spite our face”? Countless research studies in developed
nations show that rehabilitation (for criminals or students) benefits society
in the long run, whereas punishment alone does not. Does hard labor punishment, repeated
detentions, or ultimate expulsions help difficult students rise above their
misbehavior? Harsh punishments may
appease administrators, the community, or school by giving them a feeling that
justice and restitution is served.
However, after difficult students serve out punishments, no matter how
harsh, or are ultimately expelled, they’ll go right back to being their old
selves – or perhaps worse. If no one cares
(enough to rehabilitate them) why should they care? Unfortunately, society pays the ultimate
price.
Already, I see the many
comments, “Ah, the good old days when I went to school! We knew what to do then; we did not have all the
problems that schools have today.”
Effective and strategic interventions, not memories, will help difficult
students -- and ultimately society.
Already, I can hear that all-too-familiar question posed to me so many
times by educators in Belize, “Whose side are you on?” Learning neither chooses sides nor good guys
over bad guys. We may have the most qualified teachers in the world, but if no
learning takes place in their classes, we have no Education. Wherever difficult students seem to be
winning their power struggles with teachers, it’s time once more for us to Wake up and smell the coffee.
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